Embarrassed about all ages club?

I just came back from an all ages club. Tbh it was disgusting. The only fun part was dancing with friends. There were ppl smoking joints and almost having sex on the dancefloor. Water was five bucks. Security was ****. Im embarrassed because I let my self go there and grind with guys. My a$$ got grabbed and one guy who was grinding me had a ***** and no pants on. Is this a typical all ages club experience. ? I feel ashamed.